If u had to pick between freedom or love?

which would u pick?

like ur gf or watever is like, "if u luv me, u hav to do wat i say." u hav to let her control u, she has u on a leash she dominates the relationship, but for the sake of example u do luv her.

now u could leave and be totally free, like the sea itself impossible to be obtained or controlled by anyone. but u'll be alone.

i pick freedom. everytime.






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If i love them enough yes i would choose Love over Freedom(odd coming from me).Thats what i would do out of love, it's a sacrifice but also a test, "2 do what ever he saids"?, okay for love i will, but if he allows me to torture myself toss all my chances of happiness take all my freedom, and all the things that comes with, and notices all this pain I'm going threw for him and just allows me 2 hurt myself for his own sick satifaction.Then he doesn't love me, I'm kickin his A** to the CURVE! NO MAN that really loves a woman would acknowledge all this pain the woman he loves is going threw for him and just continue 2 let her suffer for himself, and no woman in their right mind should allow this, And i'm in my right mind, in that case i would pick freedom.

Y the thumbs down ? O.o






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Sadly, I would choose freedom at the expense of love. But it's really close because the prospect of a true, unconditional love is so appealing (to my Pisces venus :p).
Even if I really love them, I couldn't be with someone so controlling. We'd just end up resenting each other because I'd do everything in my power to defy them and prove that I'm the only one in control of me. It's like my personality screams "FIGHT IT!!" when confronted with options like that. :p






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Sadly, I would choose freedom at the expense of love. But it's really close because the prospect of a true, unconditional love is so appealing (to my Pisces venus :p).
Even if I really love them, I couldn't be with someone so controlling. We'd just end up resenting each other because I'd do everything in my power to defy them and prove that I'm the only one in control of me. It's like my personality screams "FIGHT IT!!" when confronted with options like that. :p






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It has to be freedom then. I can't loose my identity to someone else. When love is the way its suppose to be, when its fresh and filled with magic, mystery, excitement, when its passionate and honest, then love is a new life, it feels like a rebirth to me- there's nothing like it. I'm a new woman. But the relationship you described to me sounds like death, like a spiritual death. I don't want any part of someone who stifles who I am.

Virgo sun, Cancer moon, Pisces rising







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Freedom. I've been alone all of my life and I cannot stand seeing people not doing what they wanted to do because of love/partner. Compromise is so unappealing. I can only do SO MUCH for someone before I get exhausted and want things MY WAY! So freedom by choice or not by choice, is still freedom and not being tied down.






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"If you love me you have to do what I say."
That is Not love at all. That's pure insecurity and a need for control. Whoever says that needs to work on themself.
I choose freedom, I'm not gonna be some whipped *****.






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I could barely read the demands in your example because I was already thinking "I am so out of here" LOL!!!!

I couldn't love anyone who was like that, so yeah, freedom for sure!!!

I don't want to be alone though :(

Me: Sadge w a Leo Moon






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Honestly I cannot let anyone control me in a relationship so I would definitely pick Freedom. I want love more than anything but if I'm not happy I'd rather be alone, and have my freedom.